View profile : Gillian

Height:

5.61ft-5.9ft (171cm-180cm)

Body type:

Athletic

Hair:

Red

About me:

Thanks for stopping by to view my profile. I would consider myself a very fun, outgoing and down to earth woman who is up for just about anything. I love adventure, romance and all the 'little things.' I am open to conversation but don't find it necessary to try and sum up all that I am in 4000 characters so if you want to know something please ask. I am a business partner and also a Realtor but wait until you hear all of my other trades (never a dull moment), I'm professional, confident, self sufficient and classy but can throw on a ball cap, catch a game and drink a beer with the best of them. My most fulfilling job to date is being the mother of my beautiful 7 year old daughter who is just an angel and the kindest soul I have ever met. I prefer men who have children mainly because you 'get it' but I'm not going to discount anyone who doesn't have kids because your life experiences may mean you 'get it' too. I just haven't decided if I want to have anymore children of my own, if you have them that's great too. Full disclosure here- I am not looking for hookups, one night stands or to be your plus one at your high school reunion (does anyone really go to those?) I love dancing but I'm not into clubbing, just not my scene anymore. I'm into local eateries, great food, wine and conversation. There is nothing more attractive than an intelligent man who can hold great conversation, is well read, witty, a gentleman and kind. I love to travel and impromptu weekend getaways are among some of my favorites. I emphasize what I'm looking for so if you think you fit with me then please send me a message (I don't get the winking thing, it's passive and I expect a man to make the first move in most cases-I won't wink back). Don't be offended if I don't write back immediately, I don't live on the site. Your income is important to me, not because I am looking to get my bills paid (I do just fine in that area) but because I have been in multiple relationships where I outperform the men I am with and it always results in them feeling emasculated and resentful. I work out a few times a week, athletically built and 5'8 + (and I like to wear heels) so a healthy lifestyle is great but let me be clear, if you live in the gym or are going to look at me funny if I order a steak-we aren't a match, everything in moderation. I'm not into game playing or drama so you will always get a straight answer from me, just so much better than the alternative :) Honesty and trust are a big ones... (I know everyone says this). Finally, I'm loyal, doting, thoughtful, romantic, generous, funny, faithful and extremely trustworthy. I have realized through the years that being selective is necessary to make sure that the man I decide to share my heart with must be worthy of it. With that said, I am looking for a meaningful relationship with my best friend who is just as confident of his worth and feels safe enough to share his heart with me also.